“We’re all human, aren’t we? Every human life is worth the same, and worth saving.”
― J.K. Rowling
Read 10 cold hard facts of life that you are better off accepting to help you getting more stronger and be more self-confident.
10. You will lose everything you love
Nothing is forever, you will lose everything you love in your life. Whether it goes first or later or you do. So stop ruining the moment by taking unnecessary photos or pose, try to live your life in the present and just enjoy the moment who you are with or where you’re at.
9. Loving what you do is a myth
Loving what you do is a myth in real life. Working sucks because it is not easy to work all day without any proper food or sleep. There is a huge difference between doing something for fun and when you have no choice to do it, even when you don’t feel like it. As a photographer, there is a huge difference between taking the perfect picture and having to go to another wedding shoot.
8. The world is interested in what it can get it from you
The world is only interested in what it can get it from you. It’s not as cynical as it sounds but you have to produce something good or useful to be liked and successful. In real life no one gives a crap of what you are from “inside”. You matter for them only when you can prove useful to them.
7. There is no “Perfect drug”
There is no such thing as a perfect drug especially weed. Every drug has side effects just because it is natural doesn’t make it completely safe. Even if it has medicinal properties it can damage the developing brains and also it can trigger psychosis, induce schizophrenia in genetically predisposed people and can even make worse people suffering from depression or anxiety in habitual users.
6. Somethings you can never change
There are some things in life you can never change so instead of burning out your mental energy practice to move on. Accept the things you can’t change and change the things you can. Eventually, all the right things will fall in your place. Some things aren’t fair in life and there is nothing you can do about it.
5. Life doesn’t get better until you make it better
Life doesn’t get better until you make it this stands for everything still people want free handouts. If you don’t make enough money then instead of crying on the internet, complaining to your family or protesting for higher wages you have to come out of your comfortable life. If you don’t make it better then it will never be better.
4. You don’t always have to be liked by everyone
Somebody may not like you at a basic level because you are white or black or whatever. Maybe because at a secondary level you are a religious person and rant about it all the time or you are turned off by religious sentiments. You can’t do anything about any of these so no matter what you do, people will still dislike you.
3. Most of the people don’t care about you
People mostly don’t care about you or your problems. So don’t bother being embarrassed or get angry about it. Just live a life for yourself except for family or your close friends. Like for example people from work or acquaintance. People always fear to disappoint or being a loser in someone else’s eyes but in the end you should always care about for a handful of people in life.
2. True love doesn’t exist
There is no such thing as the “one”. There are only good ones and bad ones. The reason for most of the marriages fails because they go into marriage thinking they have found the “one”. The successful marriage is that in which both the partners their relationship is a choice not that they are bounded by some sort of mystic force.
1, You are never going to be completely happy
You are never going to be completely happy in life because you can be happy for a day or even a month if you are lucky but one is ever satisfied or happy in his life. You will always need more money, more friends, more free time or even more sex. Accepting you will be at best be mostly content is the best way to live a life stress-free. And for some fascinating articles you may have missed, check out these 10 Common beliefs that are the result of propaganda.